I Thought I Was Winning at Baccarat... Until I Realized I Was Just Rebuilding Myself

I used to think baccarat was my escape—the rhythmic chime of the dealer’s cards, the glow of red envelopes on screen, the quiet thrill of a winning streak. Like Lunar New Year, I believed if I just bet long enough, the gods would smile back.

But they never did.

Last week, past midnight, after my seventh straight loss, I paused. Not from exhaustion—but from recognition. The RNG didn’t lie; the numbers were fair. What felt broken wasn’t my luck—it was my need to control something uncontrolled.

I’m not here to win.

I’m here to remember: that peace isn’t found in bets, but in breaths between them. In Shanghai, my mother whispered that ‘福’ isn’t luck—it’s patience. In Dublin, my father said ‘luck’ is just noise when you stop listening.

So now I track wins like constellations—not trends. I don’t follow the dragon—I watch its shadow move across the table, silent as cloud light over empty chairs.

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